{"id":4070,"date":"2020-08-27T08:53:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T05:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.naramaxx.com\/?p=4070"},"modified":"2020-08-17T13:00:18","modified_gmt":"2020-08-17T10:00:18","slug":"4-farkli-ebeveynlik-stili-siz-nasil-bir-ebeveynsiniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.naramaxx.com\/EskiBlog\/4-farkli-ebeveynlik-stili-siz-nasil-bir-ebeveynsiniz\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Farkl\u0131 Ebeveynlik Stili ! Siz Nas\u0131l Bir Ebeveynsiniz?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocu\u011funuza nas\u0131l ebeveynlik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ok ki\u015fiseldir ve durumunuza, ki\u015filiklerinize, ya\u015fam tarz\u0131n\u0131za ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131za g\u00f6re olduk\u00e7a bireyseldir. Bu nedenle, “iyi bir ebeveyn” olman\u0131n bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fkeni vard\u0131r: Bir aile i\u00e7in i\u015fe yarayan bir ba\u015fka aile i\u00e7in i\u015fe yaramayabilir ve bu \u00e7ok do\u011fald\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Yine de s\u00f6z konusu ebeveynlik stilleri oldu\u011funda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da bahsetti\u011fimiz 4 stil daha fazla \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Siz nas\u0131l ebeveynlersiniz? Gelin birlikte \u00f6\u011frenelim. <\/p>\n

Ebeveynlik tarz\u0131 nedir ve neden \u00f6nemlidir?<\/strong>
\nD\u00f6rt farkl\u0131 ebeveynlik stili kavram\u0131, okul \u00f6ncesi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 inceleyen psikolog Diana Baumrind taraf\u0131ndan 60’larda olu\u015fturuldu. Daha sonra s\u00f6z konusu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 -yeti\u015fkinlerin disiplin stratejileri, bask\u0131 zamanlar\u0131nda ne kadar besleyici ve \u015fefkatli olduklar\u0131, birlikte nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurduklar\u0131, olgunluk ve kontrol beklentileri- \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynleriyle olan etkile\u015fimiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. <\/p>\n

1. Otoriter \/ Disiplinci<\/strong>
\nPisokologlar, otoriter ebeveynlerin kat\u0131, kontrol edici, ya benim dedi\u011fim olacak ya da olmayacak tarz\u0131 ebeveynlik tarz\u0131na sahip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Esasen, otoriter ebeveyn, evi bir otoriter gibi y\u00f6netir. Otoriter ebeveynin y\u00fcksek talepleri vard\u0131r, ama yine de buradaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck hassasiyette olmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklara gelince, bu ebeveynlik tarz\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00fczerinde kontrol eksikli\u011fi hissetmesine, \u00f6z sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131na ve stresin artmas\u0131na neden olabilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun s\u00f6yleyece\u011fi az \u015fey var ya da hi\u00e7 yok, bu da genellikle daha endi\u015feli hissetmelerine neden oluyor.
\n\"\"<\/a>
\n2. Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc<\/strong>
\nBu ebeveynlik tarz\u0131, esasen, sonuncusunun ters \u00e7evrilmi\u015f halidir. Bu ebeveynler son derece hassas ve s\u0131cak, ancak s\u0131n\u0131rlar konusunda kendilerini rahat hissetmiyorlar. Yani \u00e7ocu\u011fa ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu ebeveyn personas\u0131 yerine en iyi arkada\u015f olarak yakla\u015f\u0131yorlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131na nadiren hay\u0131r diyorlar, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u015fekillendirmek i\u00e7in r\u00fc\u015fvet kullanma e\u011filimindeler ve genellikle ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde fazla bir yap\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131yorlar. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, bu ebeveynlik tarz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ki\u015filik yap\u0131s\u0131 olmadan b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi ve bu nedenle “sorumluluk almakla m\u00fccadele etmesi, okulda daha k\u00f6t\u00fc performans g\u00f6stermesi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fama e\u011filiminde olmas\u0131” anlam\u0131na gelir.
\n\"\"<\/a>
\n3. Orada Olmayan<\/strong>
\n\u0130lgisiz ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na uyum sa\u011flam\u0131yor ve genellikle kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na bakmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131yorlar. \u00c7ocu\u011fa veya faaliyetlerine ilgi duymuyorlar ve onlarla ilgilenmek i\u00e7in fazla zaman harcam\u0131yorlar. Bu genellikle ebeveynli\u011fin en sorunlu tarz\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor ve bu \u00e7ocu\u011fu temelde ihmal etti\u011finiz anlam\u0131na geliyor. \u0130lgisiz evlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocuklar ise en \u00e7ok m\u00fccadele etme e\u011filimindeler.
\n\"\"<\/a>
\n4. Yetkili<\/strong>
\nBurada, asl\u0131nda pek \u00e7ok isimle an\u0131lan ebeveynlik tarz\u0131ndan bahsediyoruz: dikkatli ebeveynlik, nazik ebeveynlik vb. Esasen, otoriter ebeveynlik, uzmanlar\u0131n ve anne babalar\u0131n y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00e7abalad\u0131klar\u0131 ideal hassasiyet ve net beklentiler, s\u0131n\u0131rlar ve talepler dengesidir. B\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocukken rehberli\u011fe ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z var, ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun da s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 a\u015fmak i\u00e7in kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmesi gerekiyor. Peki bu ebeveynlik tarz\u0131 neden bu kadar iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor? \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sorumlu, \u015fefkatli insanlar haline gelmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u00f6rnek s\u00f6z konusu Yetkili ebeveynler, s\u0131n\u0131rlara karar verirken ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 empoze ederken \u00e7ocu\u011fun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 hesaba katarlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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